Drive Him Wild With Passion
by Sherry Stoner
There is not a woman out there that does not want to drive her date wild with desire.
Here are some tips that will have him ripping your clothes off with lust.
- Men are sexually stimulated by visuals. Women are often different in this respect in that they tend to respond more to what they hear and feel. Switching off the light might be a real turnoff for him. Try changing the color of the bulb, that way with a red bulb you may feel a little sexier (better yet, just leave the light on – guys love that).
- Ask him what he likes. Men are generally straightforward creatures and will respond honestly to a direct question as to what he enjoys – this can be done over a glass of wine, or in the bedroom. Often it is easier to talk about sex if you are not in a sex-charged situation. It is better to feel a bit silly for a few minutes than to find out, later, that what you have been doing to him is not what he wanted.
- Easy does it. Be gentle in your touch. Men can find rough handling very painful, especially initially. Most men enjoy oral sex, but not all of them. Ask before you simply go ahead. And remember, teeth and rings can inflict painful wounds.
- Stop/Start A sexual encounter is not a journey on a runaway train. Go slow. It is highly stimulating to slow down sexual stimulation before an orgasm is inevitable, and then to start again. Many men experience more powerful orgasms, when the preceding sexual encounter did not last a mere five minutes.
- Gentle caressing of the genitals and nipples is very stimulating to most men. Use your hands, your mouth, or even your own nipples. Ask if he would like a firmer touch – don’t just assume it.
- Kissing can be very arousing. Start gently. Explore gently – remember that your are not digging a mineshaft with your tongue.
- Never underestimate the power of suggestion. Telling him what you would like to do to him has the power of interrupting dinner dates or making him leave work early.
These few tips will have him coming back for more every time and remember if you change partners...pull this out and look at it again to remind yourself of your sexual prowess.
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