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The Ideal Man

by Sherry Stoner

Okay we all have our dream men...you do admit it...hell what would fantasies be without them...lol

Personally I find, Sean Connery (the ultimate and in my opinion the sexiest Bond), Christopher Meloni (Det. Stabler on Law and Order: SVU) and William Peterson (Gil Grissom on CSI) the hottest men on television and movies. I would kick any man out of bed in a second if William Peterson showed up at my door...pant, pant...

Anyway again I digress to my own world...lol

I think there are things that all women look for in a man that no matter what she wants, whether he is a movie star or Joe Blow off the street.

My top ten picks are (and this is my order not necessarily everyones)

1. Intelligence:
Nothing sexier then a man who can hold a conversation on almost any subject and no not just sex (although that usually comes later and is my favourite topic anyway). It shows he is more then a muscle bound or for that matter a scrawny guy with no grey matter. A boring conversation will surely lead to even more boring sex.

2. A Great Ass
Okay so what can I say I am shallow..lol. But there is nothing hotter then a man in tight jeans who is walking away and who has the best ass you have ever seen in your life. The kind you just know you want to dig your nails into.

3. Sexy Piercing Eyes
Staring into a man's eyes can tell you a lot about them. Are they paying attention to you, are they bored, etc. But if they are great eyes then you could stare into them all night long and never hear a word he is saying.

4. A Great Dresser
Now I am not saying that means he has to be outfitted in a 3 piece suit with tie and the whole works, but a great pair of jeans, nice shoes and a fantastic shirt will do more for some women then most men will ever realize.

5. Considerate
Did he hold the door for you at the restaurant? Did he hold your chair? These small things are definitely noticed and will warm a woman's heart faster then a diamond ever could. (well most women anyway)

6. Ambition
Does he have any? Is he going places? And no this does not make you a gold digger but do you want to be with someone who's big dream in life is to work at McDonald's for the rest of his life? Men with ambition are extremely sexy and again it leads right back to my number one want....intelligence.

7. Confidence
Confidence is always important in a man. It reflects the mental make up of a man and also draws attention to the man's body language. A positive attitude, confidence and body language go a long way in most women's books.

8. Sense of Humor
I know that any guy I ever dated had to have a sense of humor, mine is weird, wild and to say the least wacky. I need a man who can keep up and if they are dry, boring and I have to explain my humor...he is not getting far with me, that is for sure.

9. Looks
Okay I know this sounds shallow and goes back to number 2 and 3, however the overall package is just as important. Not all women want super models, we all have different tastes (you should have seen the difference in my 2 ex husbands..lol) but as we grow older and mature our tastes are bound to change and with that what we are looking for in terms of what turns us on physically.

10. Hygiene
Okay this sounds horrid but a man who smells bad is going to find out quickly from me I am just not impressed or interested. I want a man that if I am at the movies with I can snuggle up to him and smell the most amazing cologne that will leave me breathless (and not that does not mean it has to cost a $ 100 a bottle). Showering, clean hair, deodorant, clean socks, cologne and clean clothes will do wonders for most women.

Now I am not most women (as if you have not figured that out already). Intelligence will get a man into my bed faster then anything else, especially if he can have a friendly debate and show me he really can converse.

For you it may be looks or ambition, but whatever it is make sure you get what you want and get lots of it...

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