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Self-Masturbation For Females.

by Sherry Stoner

So what is it about this topic that freaks people out? Why is it the topic of so many jokes, locker room and otherwise, and why is it guaranteed to get a giggle out of the audience in cinemas and theatres?

Masturbation has received rather bad press over the centuries. It's still one of the conversational taboos in our society, and has been viewed as sinful and bad in many religions.

But religion isn't the only thing to give masturbation a bad rap. All the scare stories dished out, often by old wives tales, warn about horrors such as getting hairy hands, going blind, getting permanent erections (in the case of boys), going insane (explains a lot about me) and so forth. None of these stories have a smattering of truth in them.

So What's The Lowdown On Masturbation?

* Masturbation is a normal and healthy part of sexual development and both girls and boys masturbate.
* Don't believe any of the scare stories. You will not go blind, insane, turn into a pervert or get a sexually transmitted disease if you masturbate. You will also not become sterile or get pregnant. Masturbation is not evil, dirty or harmful. So chill out..
* Masturbation does alleviate stress and releases endorphins (pleasure hormones) into your system, making you feel a lot more relaxed.
* One of the good things about masturbation is that it brings sexual relief without any of the dangers of having real sex, such as unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases.
* Both masturbating and not masturbating is normal. Don't worry if you do and don't worry if you don't.
* Masturbation is a good way of finding out what pleases you sexually. For this reason, it sometimes makes later sexual relationships easier.
* Masturbation is a way of exploring the body.
* You can have tons of fun buying great toys at the local sex shops for masturbation and just think of all the fun you can have if someone comes over to play...lol

Never one to say don't try something, my opinion.. Hit the local sex shop, buy the cutest vibrator and go to town try it, see if you like it, hey if you do, do it again, if you don't get someone else to do it for you, either way have fun and forget what society says....sex and masturbation is about fun, not what others think.

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