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Be Glorious With Who You Are!

By Sherry Stoner

If you go by television ads, diet ads, movie starlets and other such things the answer would be a big NO, however there are other people who feel differently...me included.

Here is my answer:

Can you still be fat and sexy?

Sure why not! It's all in how you view your own self! You are what you say you are, not what others say. You definitely do not need some one or some television ad telling you what you should or should not look like, unfortunately that is where our young girls get their ideas from, and why bulimia and other disorders originate – by trying to fit into "society's" idea of "norm".

Some guys, especially black guys, like fat women. Why is that?

African males are generally not attracted to thin women. In the past if a married woman was thin it was taken as a sign of a bad marriage. It was believed that she was unhappy and maltreated. In other words, big robust women were in a very satisfying marriage. That attitude tends to persist today. There are tons of hot black men waiting for women to shake what we were given...so why not shake what you have and show you are just as good as those size 2 women.

Is it possible to be sexy and fat? What if you lose weight, does that make you even MORE beautiful?

Let me answer that this way..........HELL NO!!!!!!

Losing weight makes you skinny, not more beautiful, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Men all over the world from Canada to Europe to Africa all like different things. Men are not only attracted to good looks but to confidence, intelligence, attitude and the sensuality you spread out. Have you noticed that heavier women age better, with less facial wrinkles? Look at a picture of Marilyn Monroe from the Sixties – considered to be one of the hottest movie stars ever -- by today's modeling standards she would be considered FAT!!

You ladies out there who are larger may not think that the film, clothing or food industries care about you but you know what they are there to make a profit, not to care how you feel, they are there to create a product that will sell to the masses.

I can honestly say by talking to men that I have dated that many were highly attracted to larger women for various reasons. I have had men tell me they are attracted to larger women when they exude a confidence that many smaller women do not. Confident women do not have to check their appearance every 5 minutes in the mirror because they are already happy with whom they are on the inside as well as they outside.

I am in no way a size 2. I am however the total package; attitude, intelligence, with a sense of style that is my own, and I am sexy as hell when I dress to impress. To be honest if you don't like my figure, don't let the door hit your ass on the way out!

I don't need negative men who want a piece of arm candy, I want a man who will take me as I am and not try to change me to be like a size 2 model. With that attitude I still get tons of dates and trust me there is always a place to buy sexy clothes, lingerie, shoes and anything else you can think of. You just have to realize that clothes that look good on thinner women may not suit a larger frame – so select carefully.

So, I ask again, can you be sexy and fat?

Hell ya! Remember that next time you’re getting ready for your day. You can be a red-hot sex machine and all you need to change is your attitude.

So please if you are big, get out your wardrobe, get an attitude and celebrate your sexuality and sensuality cause baby YOU ARE HOT!!!!!!!!!

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